Why is it that almost every sister thinks black men are scared of commitment…??? I mean really…It seems as though every time a brother breaks up with a sister or doesn't want to put a title on their "relationship" gotta be careful how I use that term maybe the better word is "friendship" that we got to be scared of commitment. Could it be that a brother just ain't looking for anything more at the time.
Answer: You know what you would say something like that because your a man…Honestly if we doing all the things that couples do why can't we be a couple. If the lady you are with is more then just a "jump off" then what's the problem with committing to be in a relationship with her. Brothers can commit to so much but when it comes to us ladies it seems as though thats where the buck stops. Prime example: you can go to the gym almost seven days a week, work out to the point of exhaustion, make every fraternity meeting, be on time for what you want to be on time for and don't let us call late night bet you commit to coming over…
OSM: WOW guys! This is really great conversation…
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